Home & Family Facts and Notes

How do I know what women are looking for in a man? I am qualified to answer this because I am a woman, and I have found a wonderful man. I have had many men in my life over the years, and unfortunately they were not good enough to keep around. However, the one I have now is definitely a keeper! He has certain qualities that make him a keeper, and these are all good examples of what women are looking for in a man.

Take for example, my man’s primary keeper quality. He is a true man’s man, not Mr. Macho, but just the opposite. He is totally masculine in every way and respects women. He can spend the day doing manly things with his buddies like fixing his car, and then come home to treat me like a queen.

A man’s man doesn’t have to wine and dine you - but he should! He should be sensitive to your feelings, desires, and needs. He should do what ever it takes to make you feel loved, like holding your hand or making you dinner.

Beyond this respect and sensitivity, woman want to be valued. A man’s man like mine should ask for his lady’s opinion, and he should take it seriously. He should be able to engage in serious, intelligent conversation with his woman.

Having ability to value and respect women is wonderful. But along with all of the qualities of a true man’s man comes intellect. What good is asking for my opinion if you don?t understand what I say? We must be able to engage in quality conversation.

A true manas man must be fluent in the many languages of love. He should not only know how and when to do all of these things - he has to actually DO them: buy you gifts, touch your hand, share his feelings, spend quality time with you, and provide a ’service.’

Finally, a true man?s man is not afraid of losing his identity. He cannot make you feel like a woman unless he is in touch with his feminine side. He will use that side to reach out and touch yours, in just the right places.

Women are not looking for Mr. Macho (who would want him?), or Mr. Right. We all know Mr. Right is just a fantasy, anyway. A woman wants a man who knows just how to make her feel like a woman, and does it every day!

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